NLP : Panacea For Mankind
I have six different stories, rather situations, difficult one and one solution for all that will change your life completely. All and sundry, lets begin this session. Once there was a boy in our neighborhood. He was bright in studies and everyone was jealous of his performance. Everyones parents used to compare their ward with Raghav. "He got 99% in half yearly exams and it is certain that he will top the board exams," said a teacher. The time went by, life was moving as monotonous as it could never have been since exam very arriving. It was going to be first board exam of my life. Notes were ready, almirah was covered with chemical reactions, dates of historical events, objective questions of biology, one after another copy was filled with mathematical solutions and the lights were on till late night. Everybody was burning mid-night oil. Everybody was sure that this time Raghavs photograph will take a big column in the local newspaper. Ten years solved book was purchased and practical files and projects were submitted. There were high expectations from Raghav, he was made a hardworking man by his parents. Everybody was told that one should follow the schedule which Raghav follows. It seemed as if Raghav had secret strategy to get first in class. Finally, the exams ended. One and half month later Raghavs photo came in newspaper but it said, " A boy committed suicide because he could not top the class." I was appalled to know that he got 95% yet he hung himself to fan. Later, I came to know that he was so horrified from disclosing the result to his parents that he left this world. Whenever he got less grades he was subjected to hunger and restrictions like ban on playing and using mobiles. His life was in complete mess but was it really bad? Even if the answer is yes, was it right to do suicide? Second, story is about Rahul who was a happy go lucky boy. He loves to enjoy life to its fullness and I am told that he has fallen in love. He loves one of his classmates and has recently proposed her. But the girl declines to be in relationship, so he messed up his life convincing her. At last the girl agreed to be in relationship but broke up soon. He spoiled his grades and started living lonely. Third story is about another boy who touched cigarette for fun for the first time but now he has graduated in his skill and now he drinks, bunks class and takes drugs of high power. One day, he is found with some grams of drugs paddling to a different place. He is arrested by police and subjected to legal action. After getting free from case anyhow everybody was thinking that he was living a happy life but another day he was found unconscious in the bed with white froth coming out of his mouth. See, I have cited just three examples of three boys of same age group and people say what problems do students have? They dont toil for earning doesnt mean they dont have problem. According to a Times Of India report every hour one student commits suicide in India. It further says that India has highest suicide rate for youth from 15 to 29. According to WHO report nearly 8,000 die due to suicide every year. An India Today report says, failure in examination lead to 2,413 suicides by students in 2016 or seven everyday and what do we say, " Students dont have problems, the least they have to do is study. We have provided them all the facilities." Many students are sandwiching their lives in love relationship. This is equally relevant in case of girls who fall in love at teenage and screw up their lives. And above all are as the terminology of memes says, "ultra legends" who have made their life hukka bar. Many want to get rid of it but fail in their effort. And we say students dont have problems. On the contrary girls have their own issues like, how to deal with boys and how to deal with biological problems. Somebody is worried for not having a girlfriend, someone is crying after break up, someone is not able to control the mind from being distracted. There are other three examples from other realms of life. First one is about a person who was worried before he /she couldnt get job and when they happen to get one, they are unhappy about salary or work load. Second one, is about a man who is unhappy because he could not earn much and other one is unhappy because he has so much money but he has to be anxious about share market and business problems. Third story, is about a woman who is unhappy because she is a house wife and other one is unhappy because she has to manage both home and job simultaneously. There is one solution for all, a panacea for human race, NLP or Neurological Linguistic Program. But, I am not saying that it will erase all the problems or challenges in life rather it will make your brain strong enough to deal with it. Problems and challenges, sadness and happiness are natural activities of our life, its just how we train our minds that determines how happily we life our lives. NLP or Neurological Linguistic Programming is a methodology of study of human brain and how to use it to its right potential. It is a powerful tool to groom mind is such a way that our behaviour changes to a greater extent. It simple terms it method of training and thus healing mind by making it strong to withstand the miseries and challenges of life. It is a form of psychotherapy. I always wonder, why most of the schools dont have counsellors who can understand a students brain and energies and groom it in positive way. Infact there are rarely any schools that has counsellors as far as India is concerned. But, knowing the importance of intangible pain of human race Dr. Richar Bandle, Jon Grinder, Frank Pucelik, Robert Dilts, Judith Delozier, Leslie Cameron, David Gordon, and others, came up with the concept of Neurological linguistic Program in 1970s. NLP is combination of three words, Neruological that means related to mind, Linguistic or ones talk with others and ones conversation with ones own subconcious mind and the last word is Programming which mean the behavioral effect as an out come of ones construct of brain and its activities. Now lets see how it works. There are different psychotherapy to deal with human brain and make it more productive. Richard Bandle says in one of his lectures on how to deal with bad memories, "The best thing about past is that it has gone." He highlights how many of us linger in past and make a how mess out of it. There are broadly three categories in which different NLP trainer distribute a human behaviour. 1) Awareness Of things : NLP consists of a set of powerful techniques for rapid and effective behavioral modification, and an operational philosophy to guide their use. Awareness means to be conscious about the purpose of life, have sensory acuity or clear understanding. It trains brain to focus on productivity and positivity by guiding it or showing it the right direction. It includes, modules dealing with solving problems life procrastination, distraction, anxiety and failure. 2) Permission : According to Ram Verma a prominent NLP trainer in India out heart and brain give permission for every activity we do and the nature of activity depends on three different things: a) Past: What we experience in past or what we can not forget about past is what primarily responsible for our present behaviour. b) Present: The challenges of present and our way of dealing with it determines our performance. c) Future: Our way of looking towards future is responsible for our present behaviour. 3) Sub conscious reprinting : NLP training deals with training mind to be more efficient, stress free, optimistic and healthy. It helps people of realms like:- 1) Helps students: It helps students who are poor in studies, depressed in love relationship, family problems, worried to crack exams and other problems of children. NLP trainers are one of the best counsellors. It can not only help in decreasing suicide tendency, criminal tendency and violent behaviour of students but also make them more empowered and optimistic. 2) Corporate Sector : It helps people of corporate world to be more motivated and mentally active. It can help in fields like Directors and executives, Managers at all levels, Sales people, Administrators, Engineering and technical staff, Customer care operatives, Receptionists, Secretarial staff, HR and counselling staff and so on. 3) Job people: People who do job from 9 to 7 or night shifts very frequently ask how to manage home and job together, how to keep the problems of job not affect personal like and vice versa. In such case NLP training can proof to be of great help. 4) People suffering from depression : It’s training includes ways to deal with depression. 5) Bad habits : It also helps to strengthen the will power of mind and protect it from adopting bad habits. It can also help to get a drug addict get out of addiction Today, people like Shad Guru, Sandeep Maheswari, Guru Gaur Gopal Das and many more motivators have become internet sensation for teaching healing methods to people. Even we here of celebrities’ suicide and depression. People who are struggling in job need a lot of self motivation and patience. Therefore, motivators or brain trainers are getting so much fan following in todays world. Everybody is in searching the solution and let me tell you the panacea is one, NLP. So, start building your mind stronger and make your life amazing. Stay Happy Heathy